Things a PERFECT guy would do...

1. Know how to make you smile when you are down.

2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.

3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence.

4. Give you the remote control during the game.

5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.

6. Play with your hair.

7. His hands will always find yours.

8. Be cute when he really wants something.

9. Offer you plenty of massages.

10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.

11. Never run out of love.

12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.

13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious.

14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.

15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.

16. Smile a lot.

17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn't normally like to do, just because he knows it means a lot to you.

18. Appreciate you.

19. Help others out.

20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.

21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each others company, even when his friends are watching.

22. Sing, even if he can't.

23. Have a creative sense of humor.

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason.

26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs - just because he loves u that much to quit it.

ON BEING TWENTY - SOMETHING

They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis"
It is when you stop going along with the crowd and
start realizing that there are many things about
yourself that you didn't know and may not like.

You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be
in a year or two, but then get scared because you
barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish, and that,
May be, those friends that you thought you were so close to
Aren’t exactly the greatest people you have ever met,
And the people you have lost touch with
Are some of the important ones.

What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too,
And aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere,
But that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job... and it is not even close to
what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are
looking for a job and realizing that you are going to
Have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger.
You see what others are doing
And find yourself judging more than usual
because suddenly you realize that you have certain
boundaries in your life and are constantly adding
things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure.
You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life.
You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly,
change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past
with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting
further and further away, and there is nothing to do
But stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you
loved could do such damage to you.
Or you lie in bed and wonder
Why you can't meet anyone decent enough that
You want to get to know better.

Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too
And cannot figure out why you are doing this because
You know that you aren't a bad person.

One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap.
Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.
You go through the same emotions and questions over and over,
And talk with your friends about the same topics
because you cannot seem to make a decision.

You worry about loans, money, the future and making a
life for yourself... and while winning the race would
be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!

I believe...

I believe...

that you should always leave loved ones with loving words..It may be the last time you see them.

I believe...

that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I believe...

that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I believe...

that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I believe...

that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I believe...

that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I believe...

that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I believe...

that sometimes though i have the right to be angry, it doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I believe...

that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I believe...

that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I believe...

that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I believe...

that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I believe...

that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I believe...

that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I believe...

that its not the extraordinary that makes life...but that little "extra" in the everyday ordinary

I believe...

that you should be what you are and say what you feel..cos the people who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind..

Why do all good things come to an end??

Well I’m back again…a new day...a new question that I need to sort out...there’s a saying that goes—all good must come to an end...the question I’d like to ask is…WHY??...why do they need to come to an end??...why is it that if anyone has a good spell you find people telling them to “enjoy it while it lasts”…why is it that a good spell doesn’t last but if tough times come calling and decide to stay it is not that unusual…is it just because the world is so pessimistic that it thinks that good times don’t last??...or do we begrudge anyone with a better present than us that we become the sadists who ensure that the bubble is burst somehow, someway, eventually??...how can anyone be so sure??...i’m sure if we make the required effort they can and they will…or is it that we just don’t want to try?

my first blog

hey!!my very own blog..

i have always wanted to have my very own space..somewhere i could put down my thought and not be judged..atleast not by someone face to face..and have to see the expression on their faces..you might ask why not a personal diary..but personal diaries are soo jaded..anyone can read it..esp.if you have a pesky sibling who goes rifling through your things in search of blackmail material..hehe..i know u agree with what i am sayin..well since i am just startin out lets keep this small..lots more to come..c u next time..